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Belligerant, i have to check the meaning and found to be synonymous to cruel, turbulent & constant fight. It may seem difficult, but I think these "tough roads of constant struggles" made you strong and skillful, you can use later on- we call wisdom. Not everyone got a chance to hone their skills, as you do and this forum, your support group. In fairness to Moe, Erick and others who kept this forums for almost 13 years ( as I read Moe in his 1st forum); this empowered everyone, and kept them afloat till now. I'm sure we all are grateful for whatever benefits you got, and solutions for us and to help US economic recovery.
I wish I was well then & found this site early enough. Im ok, though. Given my recent 10-yr of losses and hardships, it opened my eyes, for values such as family, hope and well-being (being at peace with yourself and world around you) are more important to achieve. It's enriching to stay on the ground & empowering to embrace losses/pains and transcend me to a much more meaningful life. I only hope that I can bring forth wisdom, I gained to share and prevent others from sufferings.
I can relate about survival as "fricking belligerence". I went thru that, but worse, despite having a family, I did not have the guts or too tired to fight, multiple stressors took an extreme toll on my health. It was too debilitating that I failed to face my problems head on, and caused me to a downturn spiral. Pardon me but I can't elaborate further. I'm still in recovery. I only mentioned this part, to give you sense of gratitude, hope you are in the right place being here. BTW, I read your issue about recorded documents disappearing from County Recorders office, so I ordered 2006-2013; will let you know when i get it......
Chase 2--- Oh no---I'm not "smart to organize". I just came a " hell" part of this earth ( if there's such a place, which I'm sure no one will ever want to). I got lots to catch up from my health, family, career and financial tragedy. Being a homeowner, I lost my first home in 80"s, my second multi-unit home within 6 months in the 90's, two investment properties in Great Recession in 2012. Now, after maintaining payment of my 1st loan, 2nd Lien (part purchase loan in 2006) threatening to foreclose if I don't pay 200% Balance- when i spoke to their lawyers months ago. Then this coronavirus got us some health scare, given my pre-existing conditions, got me infected and totally changed us 360 degrees. Health is truly our wealth. What Moe said resonates with me, when he advised " Wait, and/or do what you think is "best for your family and sanity". Totally true. Thanks
Belligerant, i have to check the meaning and found to be synonymous to cruel, turbulent & constant fight. It may seem difficult, but I think these "tough roads of constant struggles" made you strong and skillful, you can use later on- we call wisdom. Not everyone got a chance to hone their skills, as you do and this forum, your support group. In fairness to Moe, Erick and others who kept this forums for almost 13 years ( as I read Moe in his 1st forum); this empowered everyone, and kept them afloat till now. I'm sure we all are grateful for whatever benefits you got, and solutions for us and to help US economic recovery.
I wish I was well then & found this site early enough. Im ok, though. Given my recent 10-yr of losses and hardships, it opened my eyes, for values such as family, hope and well-being (being at peace with yourself and world around you) are more important to achieve. It's enriching to stay on the ground & empowering to embrace losses/pains and transcend me to a much more meaningful life. I only hope that I can bring forth wisdom, I gained to share and prevent others from sufferings.
I can relate about survival as "fricking belligerence". I went thru that, but worse, despite having a family, I did not have the guts or too tired to fight, multiple stressors took an extreme toll on my health. It was too debilitating that I failed to face my problems head on, and caused me to a downturn spiral. Pardon me but I can't elaborate further. I'm still in recovery. I only mentioned this part, to give you sense of gratitude, hope you are in the right place being here. BTW, I read your issue about recorded documents disappearing from County Recorders office, so I ordered 2006-2013; will let you know when i get it......
Chase 2--- Oh no---I'm not "smart to organize". I just came a " hell" part of this earth ( if there's such a place, which I'm sure no one will ever want to). I got lots to catch up from my health, family, career and financial tragedy. Being a homeowner, I lost my first home in 80"s, my second multi-unit home within 6 months in the 90's, two investment properties in Great Recession in 2012. Now, after maintaining payment of my 1st loan, 2nd Lien (part purchase loan in 2006) threatening to foreclose if I don't pay 200% Balance- when i spoke to their lawyers months ago. Then this coronavirus got us some health scare, given my pre-existing conditions, got me infected and totally changed us 360 degrees. Health is truly our wealth. What Moe said resonates with me, when he advised " Wait, and/or do what you think is "best for your family and sanity". Totally true. Thanks